Tuesday, December 05, 2006
It's Valentine's Day. Your significant other asks you whether your love for him/her is real? How would you explain it to him or her?
I would tell him that my love for him is real. Why would I say it’s real because real is something that I believe it’s true and I will follow my instinct or sixth sense that he is the person or the guy I love so does my feels toward him. I would explain it to him that if my love towards him isn’t real, I wouldn’t stay with him for such a long period of time where I can go out with other guy who is much betters then he is. Even though his attitudes are bad but his personality that attracts me to stay with him, I can just leave him and find another guy who is much better then him.
I would also tells him that if I don’t love him, when he’s sick I wouldn’t cook for him when there’s no one in his family who are able to come back or stay at home and cook for him to eat when he needs to have something to eat before he can have his medication. I wouldn’t waste my time taking care of him if I don’t love him and I could just spend my time going out with my girlfriends or staying at home reading. I care and love him that’s why I cook for him so that he doesn’t skip his medication. I don’t usually cook and I would only cook when there’s no one cook for me or my family members requests me to cook for them. So he can consider he is a lucky guy who can try my cooking skills as I’m quite a good chef.
I would reminds him that if my love isn’t real towards him, I wouldn’t be with him when my family members disagree with me of having a boyfriend at such a young age as they think it’s not good for me as they want me to concentrates with my studies and doesn’t think of any else. They feel that being in a relationship surely makes me doesn’t concentrate on my studies and I will only think about him not my studies. With my family members disapprove of the relationship, I still continue the relationship with him and just that we don’t meet so frequently as other couples does. I wonder he would do the same thing for me if his parents disapprove the relationship?
If my love for him isn’t real, I wouldn’t purposely skip school with him and celebrate his birthday together as my parent don’t allow me stay out late at night so I skip school so that we can celebrate his important day together. He should know that I pretend to go to school in the morning but I actually going to his house and meet him to go and celebrate his birthday together. If he’s not important to me, I won’t be an idiot skip school where I can get good grades but I went to celebrate his birthday with him alone.
And lastly I would tell him that if I don’t love him and if my feelings for him isn’t real, I won’t be together with him for 6 months when there’s disagreements from my parents and struggling with my studies. I also don’t have enough time spending with my girlfriends and he occupied all my free times with calls and sms-ing. I also will ask him, all his ex-girlfriend asks him to buy them gifts and buy roses for them when their anniversary of being together for how long or when their birthday and on Valentine’s Day, I will ask him to save up the money of buying roses where he could buy me gifts that I could keep as memories or give ourselves a treat at comfy restaurant. He should consider himself lucky to have a girlfriend like me who helps him save up on buying roses but I, myself who is a shopping fanatic and doesn't ask him buy roses for me as most girl like to receive roses as I also love to receive roses from him but I doesn’t want him to waste his hard earn money.
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10:08 PM
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